Short answer
Different expectations about finances, residence, family involvement, children, careers and intimacy are common and should be discussed openly.
Islamic Guidance
What Islam teaches
Islam encourages fulfilling rights and responsibilities and treating one another with kindness and fairness.
Practical Guidance
What you can consider
Identify each expectation clearly, distinguish essential matters from preferences and negotiate practical arrangements respectfully.
Sources
Qur'an 4:19; Qur'an 30:21.