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How important is character in choosing a husband or wife?

Character is extremely important because marriage involves daily interaction, trust, responsibility and conflict resolution.

What Islam teaches

Islam repeatedly emphasizes good character, kindness and fair treatment. A person's conduct toward others can provide important insight into how they may behave within marriage.

What you can consider

Observe how the person treats parents, service workers, colleagues and people with whom they disagree. Ask trusted people about the person's conduct rather than relying only on self-description.

Qur'an 4:19; Sahih al-Tirmidhi.

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