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Should appearance matter in choosing a spouse?

Physical attraction can reasonably be considered, but it should be balanced with faith, character, compatibility and responsibility.

What Islam teaches

Islam does not require people to ignore attraction when considering marriage. However, external appearance is temporary and should not become the sole basis for choosing a life partner.

What you can consider

Make sure attraction is accompanied by meaningful conversations about personality, values, expectations and future plans.

Sahih al-Bukhari; Sahih Muslim.

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